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The tragedy of the online female anchor: After making money, the husband has to divorce herself

2025-01-27 13:19:37|Myriagame |source：minecraft skins

Looking at many online female anchors, it is nothing more than selling meat and taking off their clothes to earn the otaku's money. In our eyes, they spend money and coquettish in various tyrants."Negative".However, only talents in the industry know that the anchor is not easy.Changchun's Meimei has been doing this line for more than a year. Now she really feels the impact of this ambiguous activity of the Internet on real life.

My name is Meimei. I am 26 years old. I have been an online female anchor in Changchun for more than a year.My hometown is from Yushu Rural. At the age of 18, I came to work in Changchun. At that time, I worked as a salesperson in an insurance company.

In January 2013, I talked to a company's promotional campaign in March 8th and met my current husband.We fell in love at first sight and got along for less than 3 months, and we decided to live together.We are very simple to get married: On April 8, 2013, we received a certificate, bought a pair of wedding rings, and went to the restaurant for a meal with a few friends.My husband is doing sales, 6 years older than me, and his career has just started.We both have a heavy burden. Her husband is a very strong person. He said that he could not add a burden to his parents because he was going to get married.I fully agree with this, as the saying goes: good men do not eat separate meals, good women do not wear dowry clothes.And he also promised me that if we have money in the future, we must make up a beautiful wedding.

My girlfriends are not optimistic about us. They always feel that my external conditions are better and can find a rich and relaxed life.Not only did my friend understand me, but my parents did not agree with the marriage at first.In our hometown, marrying a girlfriend is to collect gifts, but how can he have that money? I can only "cut first and then play."My relatives don't understand me, but now I think that this is the brave and pure thing I have done in my life.

After we got married, we worked hard to save money to buy a house.In fact, I am not in a hurry to buy a house and a car. As long as there is a place to live, we are still so young and very hard. We will have these ones sooner or later. It is important to live a good day.Even if it is a rented house, I can create a feeling of becoming a monk.But my husband often blame herself to make me live a more comfortable life.

At the beginning of 2015, my husband's friends went to sing karaoke. One of the friends saw me singing and invited me to join the anchor studio he just established as an online female anchor.At that time, I was not attentive. The next day he made a special trip to me and my husband to introduce the work of the female anchor in detail, mainly to sing, and it is guaranteed that there will be a special person responsible for the supervisor to ensure that I will not be harassed and attacked.To be honest, although I am okay, I have no confidence in supporting a live broadcast alone, because I haven't done it before, I don't know if I can do it.My husband encouraged me and said that he had escorted me as soon as he had time.I later thought that as long as my husband supports me, I am also a bottom line, so there is no good concern.

In April 2015, I officially became an online female anchor.Now when people mention the online female anchor, the first impression is to dance and sing in front of the camera, and then some people feel like it is a bit unsatisfactory.But I really knew this trip that this was completely a labor.I will sing for 50 minutes for an hour online.In order to earn more money to buy a house, I try to ensure that there is enough time on the Internet. After the offline, I am so tired to talk to my husband.

At the beginning, there were not many people who came to my live room. My husband had time to be a monitoring field, active atmosphere, and supervising speeches.After he initially learned about my work, he was very considerate of my distress and taking care of my life. We really felt like a bitter and bitter.However, as my live broadcast room became more and more popular, more and more people, my husband's attitude towards me also changed.

In August 2015, after 4 months of training, my live broadcast room was very popular, and people became more and more difficult to control.That day, the husband was resting, and he helped him to do a monitoring field. Some people inside spoke too much. He was very angry, but he couldn't show it. He also caught up with a 40 -year -old brother and kept playing with me.People in the entire live broadcast room are coaxing.Of course I wouldn't agree, but I had to reject him strategically.

Now that I want to come, my husband has never giving me a monitor since then.Every time I asked him to help me, he said he was busy.I met a few female anchors before. I heard that I was envious when I got married. I was a big problem to find my boyfriend, let alone getting married.There are also sisters who advise me that if you make enough money, don't do it, which will affect the relationship between the husband and wife.But I always believe that my husband must believe in me.

Earlier this year, we finally bought a house in full, and our dreams were realized.After the Spring Festival, I bought a van for my parents with our money to make them use it.But my husband became furious because I did not discuss with him.I have some grievances. I have worked so hard every day. I earned 2/3 of the money for buying a house. I used 30,000 yuan privately. Is it worth his noise with me? But he pulled out a lot of respect. What respect for him.Well, what trust, I doubt whether we are talking about the same thing.

Today, he has moved out of home and insists on divorce.I do n’t want to do anything now. I do n’t want to divorce, but I ’m not as confident in our future life. I always feel that something between us has changed. We ca n’t go back to the past.Face

"Make money and start from love"

Reporter: From the description of Meimei, we roughly judged that the place where her husband was dissatisfied was that she used the common deposit of the two.With the disparate gap between the salary of the husband and wife and the relatively independent economy, how should we grasp this degree so as not to hurt the relationship because of money?

Yin Hang: Women must first learn economic independence so that economic independence can achieve personality independence, and then to achieve emotional independence.When there is a dispute between the two sides, at least your independence can give you a corner to put your heart. At least your husband will not become the whole of your life. You can also have your own career.healthy.Starting from letting you make a comprehensive independence, this is the prerequisite for every woman's rise.

In addition, each family has different financial management methods. Two people must use the premise of communication. They feel comfortable and the other party feels comfortable.

Reporter: During the interview, Meimei repeatedly stated that her husband had divorced her and accused her of spending money to spend a big deal. The husband was more mindful to her identity of her online female anchor.If so, what problems should the couple solve together?

Yin Hang: On the surface, it is a problem of money. In fact, it is still a problem. There are garbage in their close relationships and need to be cleaned, such as suspicion, loss, dislike, etc.Due to the openness of the network platform, the beauty of beauty must be particularly good.Meimei must contribute more frankness to husband and wife relationship, create opportunities to let her husband understand herself more, and reduce the possibility of her husband's suspicion.Husbands should also choose to trust as much as possible. Since they choose to make their lover become online female anchors, they must be responsible for the results of this choice. Behind the high salary of online female anchors, they must also bear the changes in relationships with each other.

Reporter: As a online female anchor, she has no friends. In order to make more money, she is sitting in front of the computer every day. Even if it is interaction, she can adjust herself through the Internet?

Yin Hang: Life, career, and health must be balanced, so that the quality of life will be higher.It is terrible to have no friends except money. Happiness needs to be shared, and pain needs to be shared. Such physical and mental can be healthier.

After all, the Internet world is an illusory world, and the good friends around you are real.When you cry, someone is crying with you, and someone will be with you when you laugh.Mei and the United States must learn to change their status and give them more time to contact real friends, otherwise they will also suffer from network syndrome, such as weakness, blurred vision, and pain in the back of the waist.Making money must also start from the energy of love and joy. Do not take health and relationships as the starting point. The hard work will continue to flow out soon.

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